A Prestigious Hour with Dad
3 days ago, i cleaning up my father's face (we did Facial, actually) haha. we often do that starting when i was kid. but yesterday the chit chat seems different, we talked a lot about relationship, because my father ever said that i can be in relationship when i'm in 3rd semester. now, i'm in 4th semester so he gives me permission tohave a boyfriend.
i said that hm daddy i guess right now i don't need that kind of relationship, i really feel comfort with what i have now and i have people who always ask me about time to eat, and remembering me time for pray, my father always call me every morning to asking my day, i have lot of friends to discuss, i feel enough. yeah, for now..
Facial starts from 5pm to 6.30 pm. Just take an hour and half. But for myself it was really meaning. Because i thought, does other father talks like this to his daughter? Talk about relationship you should have. I realize that i'm fortunate have my dad in my life :)
i said that hm daddy i guess right now i don't need that kind of relationship, i really feel comfort with what i have now and i have people who always ask me about time to eat, and remembering me time for pray, my father always call me every morning to asking my day, i have lot of friends to discuss, i feel enough. yeah, for now..
Then i ask him about feeling boring for married. Did he ever feel bored with marriage? And he said, no. I never thought to feel boring, you can't feel that. when you have choose someone to accompany you in your entire life, you cannot feel bored or want tho change your couple. I know he is really faithful :)
Second question, the reason why you fallin love with mom, and he said, there's no reason. because when you love someone with a reason, for example you love him because he is smart, then when he had bad time, and being lazy then doing stupid thing, so you didn't love him anymore. I love your mom is because i love her the way i looked her, for plus point she good at cooking, she's often take care of me, prepare my suitcase when i wanna go to seminar, she's easygoing and kind to my friends. Then I'm sure that "I think she is the one"My father told me that nobody's perfect. you cannot require someone to be exactly what you like, what you want. Learn to accept somebody in every way. Because you are not perfect either.
Facial starts from 5pm to 6.30 pm. Just take an hour and half. But for myself it was really meaning. Because i thought, does other father talks like this to his daughter? Talk about relationship you should have. I realize that i'm fortunate have my dad in my life :)
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